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Divorce can stem from lack of communication

On Behalf of | Sep 22, 2020 | Divorce

The reasons why people get divorced in New Jersey are numerous. However, one of the major catalysts of divorce is simply unmet expectations. This can easily happen if two spouses failed to communicate well with one another during the course of their marriage.

In many situations leading up to divorce, an unhappy person in a marriage will discuss his or her marital problems with other people, such as friends, but not with his or her spouse. The same can be true for the other party. The result? Neither party truly knows what his or her spouse needs or feels.

However, when one spouse criticizes the other party, the subject of his or her criticism is likely a good indicator of what that spouse’s unmet need is. For instance, if a spouse complains that the other party never helps out around the home, this spouse is likely feeling disrespected and unappreciated. Thus, he or she needs help and support. Communicating these needs upfront can help to avoid conflict down the road.

If two spouses simply cannot overcome their communication issues, then getting divorced may be inevitable for them. Fortunately, a family law attorney in New Jersey can help a person who is getting divorced to effectively communicate his or her asset distribution and child custody wishes, for example, to the other party during negotiation or mediation. The divorce attorney will push for a fair and comprehensive settlement agreement that is ultimately in his or her client’s best interests in both the short term and the long term.